Sunday, December 4, 2016

Christmas Letter 2016

Merry Christmas!  Happy New Year!  Fröhliche Weihnachten! Alles Gute in neuen Jahr!

Dear Family and Friends,

Eight years ago, I sat to write my Christmas letter that ended the year letting you know that Sean was about to deploy to Iraq; this year, I sit down to write letting you know that Sean is deployed in Africa.  About 160 days from Sept. – March.  The holiday season is just a little less festive knowing he is not with us,but knowing that Spring will bring new life and my beloved home makes it easier.  Having teenagers with whom I can share my heart and mind makes it much easier.  Russell, Clark and MJ are truly a blessing to me as their lives are busy and full, but now it is not just me doing everything for them – we are able to do things for each other. 
Sean had a very busy year – from San Diego for a medical conference to Korea in March for a training exercise, promoted to  Lieutenant  Colonel in June, learned of deployment in July, which led to training in preparation for deployment in San Antonio and Alabama for 6 weeks; home just after the kids started school.  It wasn’t until September that we were able to take a family weekend and see more of the Alsace region in France; followed by a long weekend for just 2 in Split, Croatia before getting on a plane to go to the US to fly to Africa.  Every week in between was full of patient care and administrative duties.  Everyday that I go into the hospital someone asks me how is he doing and when is he coming home, they all miss his smile, positive can-do attitude and leadership.  Cindy and Rich – you should be very proud of your son, I know I am eternally grateful that you molded such a wonderful man to be my husband.  Thank you!
Russell is interested in everything and loves life with a passion.  Even on the most difficult days he can muster a smile and good word, just like his Mother,Tasha.  From the little kid we visited in Rye CO to the young man he is today he has always brought a smile to my face and heart.  Russell  keeps realizing that he true talent is in the physical world.  He started playing tennis this summer in a more serious manner and already made the school’s tennis team.  His dad, Dave was also a tennis player in high school and loved the sport – it is good to see that passion living on in the next generation.  The summer was spent visiting with family  in Tennessee and Colorado, going to camp and learning more construction skills from Uncle Craig.  He has started his junior year here at Kaiserslautern high school.  Doesn't seem possible that he only has 1 ½ years of school left.
Clark is interested in science, science and math; at least that is what it feels like, but then I step back and realize his language skills (in addition to German, French, and Latin, he is now in his 2nd year of Russian and dabbles in Hebrew a few times a month) and growing knowledge of history and society and I am awed by the German school opening so many unique doors to him.  He continues to play tennis with a passion – 3 times a week and also in tournaments.  Still developing the skills of playing in tournaments; completely different mind set than playing with friends.  Next year the entire education process changes and it will be even more like college, with essentially declaring a major for the next 2 ½ years.  It looks like he will have math and physics for certain, still deciding on the 3rd area of concentration (leaning toward history I think); then Chemistry and well, not really sure what else will round it out, except I know German remains a main subject.  These are hard decisions, because everything in science and engineering interests him and he can’t just do science.
MJ has found a passion in drawing.  She works very hard to improve her skills and sometimes loses sleep to work on shading.  School is not as interesting at the moment, not good in Mom’s book, but I have to remember she is only just turning 13 and still figuring out her passion.  Still says she wants to be a NeuroSurgeon, but every once in awhile will mention psychiatry.  MJ has also found a great deal of enjoyment in tennis and has increased her playing time to two times a week and is willing to think about some tournaments this coming spring.  We need to spend more time in France so she can improve her French and feel confident in her language skills.  It is interesting watching the difference of the boys vs girl in the adolescent stage – the boys have become more confident in who they are, while MJ is still figuring it all out.  I have a great confidence that by the time she is 16  she will be a real force to reckon with though.
Mayland continues to volunteer at the hospital running the GME program.  Picked up the position of interim director for the hospital in CME (Continuing medical education which is for physicians) while they did a search.  Fortunately, that responsibility will be short lived as being a director for 2 programs, Mom to 3 (4 if you count Tatzie our dog); and wife of a deployed soldier can feel a bit overwhelming at times. 
The new year will bring more changes, challenges and opportunities.  Take time to appreciate the people and world around you.  Don’t be a stranger, come and visit, please. 

  
Love, Peace and Happiness,

 Sean, Mayland, Russell, Clark, and MJ

PS – Sean will be deployed through Feb. 2017 (possibly March)

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Sunday, November 13, 2016

Pre-Deployment time: France / Croatia

My mind has been creating a new post for the past couple of months, but my heart has had a hard time with making me sit down and write.  Today, as I walked Tatzie and talked to MJ I realized that when I don't communicate the difficulty of deployment is harder.  So, even though my extroverted self prefers face to face conversations; my physical location requires writing.
This past summer was pre-deployment.  Sean was in TX / AL for 6 weeks while the kids were in the states (Russell - TN & CO, Clark and MJ - NJ, PA, VA).
Once we all returned home in last August (kids) and September (Sean) we took a long weekend together, including Tatzie in the Alsace region of France.  A great area, because Tatzie was able to be with us, as we took long walks and enjoyed time together.  We were on the wine route: Rorschwihr, Beblenheim, Orschwiller, Saint-Hippolyte, Kintzheim and Ribeauville.  Beautiful old half-timbered houses and soaring castles.  The most fun was feeding the monkeys, we were able to just stand there and hold out food, they would come up to us and eat.  It was great seeing my teens acting more like kids than teens.
The most unexpected find was the memorial to Audie L. Murphy - where he won the Medal of Honor, at Holtzwihr.  We continued walking after finding the memorial to see a memorial to some British who were lost when their plane went down (Memorial du Lancaster).
Photos from our time in France.


After we returned home from France, Sean and I took a few days just for the two of us in Split Croatia.  September is the perfect time to go - no crowds and beautiful weather.  I love Croatia.  Much of it had to do with the guide we ended up with too, Mr. Peter with Private Guides Croatia.  Absolutely, a man who loves his country, but more than that he loves to teach.  I was pretty sure that Sean and I would drive him crazy at first, but once we got to know each other, it was awesome.  Our 1.5 hour tour of the city turned into 4 hours.  Our tour of the waterfalls was extended by another 2 hours - he took us to the places that aren't for tourists - the houses that are still waiting to be rebuilt after the war of Croatian Independence (1991-95) and the fields that are still mine fields.  He taught us about sustainable fishing in the area.  He even found a slice of tomato to help take the pain out of a wasp sting.